Well I started this discussion because i feel this way sometimes and i felt like this soooo much last year. I mean don't think i'm some weird unsocial butterfly i mean i'm normal, i have my imperfections and i'm proud to be who and where i am today. Again i started this discussion as a sort of advise table to help people like me overcome these feelings like i have slowly begun to do. I'll share my tips adn stress relief tips. I will really try to answer questions or comments back ASAP!!!
P.S I soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo HOPE you ANSWER, COMMENT, or REPLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OKay SO here is how i'm going to attempt to do it...... I will state a common problem, then i will share some advice and/or a tip. Just please remember i'm still human so i'll make mistakes or not answer your comments right away and i'm sooooooo very sorry!
OKay so here goes number one! :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)
Common Problem: Many girls may feel like "Since that boy from last year didn't like me then this one won't either" or maybe more like "Since I was the victim of jokes and pranks no one will ever like me"
MY Advice: I was the quiet one in Elementary school and when i got to middle School I figured since my Fifth grade crush didn't like me then I had absolutley had no hope to find a boyfriend in Middle school, so why should i even try? Well I soon found out that i had my own secret admirer who was a lot like me in the sense that he thought I wouldn't like him. So i think it's okay to put you feelings out there when it's necessary. I've learned from my own previous expiriences that the worse that can happen is he says "No, sorry i don't really like you" So if you think you have a chance then ask, there's never a dumb question! :)
Tip: Try to ask in a time when you have built up your confidence which is usually just before the time you start talking yourself out of it again :) I know that's me stating the obvious so you could try to build you confidence by thinking "If he do say yes then....." as opposed to "Well he's gonna say no and laugh in my face!"
Thanks for reading!
i think that we have all had that feeling... but i mean we are not going to sit back and be upset just because a guy didnt like us, or because he doesnt see you the way you want him to see you!
i know this because i have done it before, i get SUPER sad and i even cry because of that
but what about the other fish in the sea? dont they count or what? but we all thing different