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I am changing my style to make my boyfriend happy...

I just heard that Kanye West is planning to design Kim's weeding dress, and to be honest I do not know if it is something sweet about him, or if it something way to creepy. As many of you know, Kim also let Kanye to change her entire wardrobe. In my opinion, I wouldn't let my boyfriend to change my style,that is why I have my friends, sisters, and my mom to tell me that my taste in style is awfully wrong, and I need to change my entire wardrobe. ( Luckily, no one has told me that my style is wrong, or that I look like a cartoon character.) I mean, I think and I am pretty sure that guys doesn't want to change anything about a girl, and sometimes it is good for the guy to say what he thinks of your outfit, but when is it too far? Some people say that when a guy is controlling the way you dress might be a sign of a future abusive relationship, since he is telling you what to wear, and what not to wear. Yet, the question remains when is it too far? Sometimes, us, girls want to experiment on a new look, and sometimes it doesn't look the way we were hoping to, sometimes our boyfriends are kind enough to tell us that it looks wrong, or sometimes tend to not care. Even sometimes, to not make you feel bad, they say that you look beautiful, and then one of your friends or family tells you the truth, then you get mad at your boyfriend for not telling you the truth. So, in conclusion men always lose on the battle on style. Yet, we love to change a man's style, and we are experts on doing so. But it is a huge difference to let your boyfriend change the way you dress, and changing your style because you want to, and want to fit into your boyfriend's style. So what do you think? When is it too far to let your boyfriend change your style? Or is it even bad?

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Comment by Melissa Torres- Flores on October 31, 2013 at 2:59pm





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