We are all in that stage of our lives when we want know what being in a relationship is like. We enjoy spending time with guys, especially if you can enjoy that time together with your best friend, call it a bonding moment maybe, but what do you do when your best friend decides to spend more time with him than with you?
Sadly this has been a problem that has been going on lately, my best friend recently met her man crush and since then I rarely see her or hear from her.
I thought maybe it was a temporary thing where the "honeymoon" phase would be short and sweet, but nooooooo it doesn't seem to be coming to an end anytime soon.
The best way to confront this problem, I believe, is to have open communication. I mean there's a reason were best friend right?
It is a give and take process where you give the advice and communicate your feelings, and she takes it and tries to change.
I took the step last night and talked to her.
Our conversation went fairly well and after long examples and minimal tears, we came to an agreement that "girl time" is sacred time and the guy had respect it.
Ladies, don't ever forget that your girlfriends are very important and a guy can't change that.