Relationships concerning your friends or a boyfriend can be really hard. There are many different elements that go into maintaining a good healthy relationship with a friend or a significant other. I have had some bad and good experiences concerning both of these relationships. When your young finding friends seems to be so easy. You just have to walk out to the jungle gym and boom there you go, you find a friend instantly. When you start getting older though this becomes more difficult. Girls start recognizing themselves more, and start changing to become the image that they want. If your not wearing the right clothes, don't have the right hair, don't have the right makeup, or aren't cool enough some girls might not consider you to be a friend. This is sooo dumb, but this is the sad truth that some teens and maybe even you have had to deal with. Don't ever let anyone tell you that you should change who you are. If these friends that you have try doing this just say no. They weren't worth it to begin with if they have you trying to change who you are, trust me you'll find others who will appreciate you for who you are and who won't judge you. As far as relationships go concerning boyfriends this one is tough. Having a boyfriend in general is stressfull haha but you should still be able to have a healthy relationship with someone you like. Don't let him talk down to you, or try and change you, or worst of all try doing any physical harm to you. No guy is worth your tears if he is doing anything like this to you. Even though at the time you may not realize it, there are MUCH better guys out there that will treat you the way you should be treated. So just always remember to have a good head on your shoulders and be who you are, and never let any guy or friend tell you how you should or shouldn't act!